I came across this article not too long ago and I started thinking. What would I say to my 14-year-old self if I could go back?
I would tell myself that the boy you are crying over isn’t worth your time. In three years you will forget he ever existed. As a matter of fact, forget boys entirely because you won’t meet your match for another 12 years!
I’d tell myself that the loneliness you feel is temporary. People will enter your life; some will stay and some will leave. The ones that stay are worth holding on to, so nurture your true friendships. Follow no one’s path but your own, to the beat of your own drum 😉
I would tell her to let go of the anger and the pain. It will only hinder your personal growth and it hurts the people around you. The only person you can change is yourself so start there. You’d be amazed at the result.